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Newsletter #23
Monique
Guild Business
Intuitive (310) 589-1958 Hello
To All! I've really been taking a look at THE RESULTS
that I'm presently experiencing in my life right at this very
moment. In nine areas (Mentally, Physically, Spiritually, Career,
Financially, Fun, Education, Material and in Relationship). I wrote out exactly
THE RESULTS that I am experiencing at the present time. I like to do this sometime during the half way point of
the year; to look at the 'Intuitive Goals™' that I set at the beginning of
the New Year and evaluate if I am anywhere near accomplishing them or
if I am way of the charts. Well, I was thrilled to discover great progress in some
areas and not so thrilled with other areas. So, I decided to really investigate the COMMITMENTS
that have actually produced THE RESULTS that I am currently living. Now those commitments that are in
place show up in both the actions that I take and the conversations I
have with myself. The following is a list of questions I asked myself and the
process that I went through in order to begin again and also, to come into
alignment with what I say I want for myself for the second half of this year. So, first, I started with a list of THE RESULTS(the
facts) I'm living in each area. For example, THE RESULT I live
in the Material world would be I live ______, I drive ______, I own ______etc. Physically: I weigh_______, I eat_______, I workout ________etc. Spiritually: I meditate, go to church, pray etc. I did this process in each area. Then I broke down each area and asked myself questions: Mentally: What do I continue to picture in my head over and over again
on a daily basis? Do I continue to mentally challenge myself? If I don't love what shows up in my life, I can ask
myself: 1. What am I seeing for myself? 2. What am I thinking about
habitually that I need to change? And 3. (I then went further and asked
myself)What filter am I filtering the world through? ( I will speak more about
this is my next Newsletter). I asked myself: What do I continue to mentally picture (see
for myself) on a daily basis? Most importantly: ** Am I Aware of what I'm
picturing/seeing/envisioning for myself daily? Am I happy with what I see over and over again? Physically: 1. What has my commitment
been to in this area? 2. (Well), what am I actually
living? (Example; "the truth is that lately I see that I have been
justifying that extra cookie. 3. Why? (In other words;
"What is the voice I hear or the conversation I have with myself inside my
head? For example, the conversation might be "I can eat what I want…I
will start tomorrow" etc. Whatever
conversation I'm having will be the one that I will empower with my actions). Spiritually: 1. (I ask myself) what is the
conversation I am having in not following my plan? 2. What is the result I actually
want? 3. What is the new commitment? 4. (Therefore) the new conversation
that I will have with myself is,...? I actually write all of this out so that I can consciously
make new choices and consciously think about the new conversation. Why? Because
I want to be living a different RESULT. Career: What are THE RESULTS that I am having in my
work life right now?
(I wrote a list of what is happening and what I would like
to see happen...what RESULT do I want to live. I noticed that there were things that I said that I wanted
to have happen. But, when I actually took a look at what my conversation was
with myself I saw that it did not match what I said that I want! -- GOODNESS! I say that I want something but I have not been taking the
actions to support what I say I want so... what is my commitment, here,
too - really? When I get honest with myself and stop fooling myself that is
when I can really begin again and make a new commitment or accept the RESULT
that I'm living. Financially: 1. I wrote out exactly where I am. 2. I wrote out exactly what I want. 3. I wrote out what the
conversation has been. 4 And I wrote what the new
conversation needs to be -- if I say I truly want what I say I want....Because
then the actions will follow. I say I want one thing or I set a goal at the beginning of
the year stating what I will achieve this year -- but my commitment has been to
something else. I can see this HOW? Simply, by THE RESULT I am living at this
very moment. Every time I go against something I say I want that is
further information about where my commitment is. Fun: Now it is very interesting that I actually did not sit down
and write this out as I look over my notes here. So, I will ask myself
right now: AM I HAVING FUN IN MY LIFE? Yes. I am having fun. Of course there
are things I want to do. But, the way in which I live my life is fun. I love
what I do. I love the projects that I am working on. Ah! But, am I
making time for fun? Not work fun. But fun? What is fun for me? So, I will
make a list of things that are fun and make sure that I incorporate those
things into THE RESULT I say I want to live. Education: 1. What RESULT am I living in this
area? 2. Am I happy with it? (No. I am
clear of my intuitive vision in this area; very clear. I will write out a plan
so that I bring my current life in alignment with it. 3. I will entertain
conversations in my head that support this. Materially: 1. What is THE RESULT am I living? 2. What do I say that I want to do
in this area? 3. What conversation am I having
with myself? Relationships: Both personally and professional 1. What is THE RESULT that I am
living? 2 What do I like about this RESULT?
What don't I like? 3 What do I need to change
about myself? I believe that the relationships that are in our lives are
there to either show us a refection of ourselves or to
evolve us somehow. So, I ask myself: What is this person showing me about
myself? What do I like about what I am seeing and what don't I like? I can
change me - not them. I can always look at my RESULTS to actually see what I am
committed to. If I am committed to being _________(healthy, happy,
struggle, chaos, rich, famous, playing small etc.) that is the conversation I
will have with myself. Whatever, I say I'm committed to all the actions that will
show up will be a direct reflection to that commitment. Write me and let me know what you discover! Any questions? monique@moniqueguild.com Pass this on. Let's all help each other get committed to our
lives in this second half of 2007!! Happy Father's Day! Monique Monique Guild, Business Intuitive, Speaker, |
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